The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz

 

1. Be impeccable with your word. Speak with integrity. Say only what you mean. Avoid using the word to speak against yourself or to gossip about others. Use the power of your word in the direction of truth and love. 

2. Don’t make assumptions. Find the courage to ask questions and to express wha you really want. Communicate with others as clearly as you can to avoid misunderstandings, sadness and drama. Withjust this one agreement you can transform your life. 

3. Don’t take anything personally. Nothing others do is because of you. What other’s say and do is a projection of their own reality. Their own dream. When you are immune to the opinions and actions of others, you won’t be the victim of needless suffering. 

4. Always do your best. Your best is going to change from moment to moment; It will be different when you are healthy as opposed to sick. Under any circumstance, simply do your best and you will avoid self-judgment, self-abuse, and regret.